WISH
...i would say how much i miss this presence in my life and situation. But I can't. ...i would say how many times i space out with my thinking in many situation and know that it would be different had this presence been here. But it is high expectation. ...i would have a home to go back to, feel supported and secured in the midst of any day-to-day encounters... knowing I have someone with him i shed off all my masks and knows me well without explaining. But proves impossible. ...i would play and giggle. dream and plan. progress and move steadily. according to god's plan and orders. soul level. supported by this presence. But it is hard. ...we would talk and talk. discuss and discuss. learn and unlearn. teach and receive. smile in awe. in appreciation. of one another's opinion and sharing. But is never attained. ...we would share share share. listen listen listen. understand and empathize. contain and hug to rest and include. silently affirm and invite to a safe shore to cry
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...also helps.
Why not give it a shot. What do u think I wanted to say? You have been picking on my mind a lot lately.
Com'on chicken. Give it a shot. I dare you. DARE U. DARE you little Firy Aries.
By SI I don't mean only bahavior on dates or when in bed. I think it's also way of knowing to deal with the others based on their sex-being. Knowing how to approach sexes differently in each situation.
Haal, I have to give it more thought for a proper thesis, maybe connect it with emotional intelligence a little. We'll see where this leads us.
Sometimes intelligence is a curse.
solve problems.
"Intelligence is usually said to involve mental capabilities such as the ability to reason, plan, solve problems, think abstractly, comprehend ideas and language, and learn."
So where does emotion & sexuality come into this?The ability to reason, plan & solve emotional & sexual problems?Do we really approach love & sex as 'problems' we're required to solve?Should we?
Or do phrases like emotional intelligence & sexual intelligence really come under the heading of abstract thinking?But aren't our emotion & sexuality more about feeling & than thinking?Where is the dividing line between feeling & thinking?Isn't thinking just the mechanism we use to regulate our feelings & instincts & desires?
And learning?Yes anything that gets better with experience involves learning. For sure we become better emotional & sexual beings with experience.
Finally understanding ideas & language?Communication is the word that comes to mind here. The ability to effectively communicate our needs & desires & comprehend the needs & desires of others.
One thing I've always wondered about is this. Understanding ideas & language comes with education. We even use language when talking to ourselves, to better understand ourselves. So does this necessarily mean that people who are better educated must be more sensitive & more 'developed' emotionally, mentally or sexually?Is emotional or sexual intelligence an 'elite' thing?How much is it a class issue?
So many questions ya Loulou. I personally believe that emotions shouldn't be accompanied by thinking, since I guess thinking does some kind of regulation to the emotions, which I believe is not needed.
I agree that it’s communication that is needed, but is intelligence related to our ability to communicate our thoughts, emotions, and desires?!
Yet spontaneity is a very important part in sexual intelligence, too much planning and routine may take away some much needed passion to preserve good SI...
Trade Offs. And It's OK as long as it is well integrated with EI.
EI is an importan corporate trends nowadays. Used primerly for More Happy productivt people in team work and more ballance Home/Work Life.
a tease & a dare...
Com on, your say...
Sexual Intelligence? Do you need to be intelligent to be sexual? Sex is sex, either you and your partner are satisfied at the end of it, or not.
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